I got a 4:30am text from this girl I went out with last night saying how much she wants to see me tonight. There’s really two things that bug me about it.
- It’s 4:30am.
- She knows I’m busy tonight.
Is she being sweet or crazy?”
There are definitely aspects about this that could be flattering. The eagerness to see you again is a plus. Your two concerns do definitely warrant attention, though.
Eagerness can be split into two sub-divisions: enthusiasm and anxiety. Enthusiasm is wonderful and healthy. Anxiety is overbearing and consuming. Which one this is depends on how much time lapsed between saying “goodnight” and 4:30am.
Her asking to see you even though she knows you’re busy, on it’s own, could be seen as her being cute. Cuteness, however, can lose it’s luster at 4:30am—It’s a unique hour. There are few things in life that warrant a 4:30am text and this is not one of them. She could easily have waited until a more decent hour.
You’re right to be wary and I would proceed with caution. This may very well be a fluke, but something tells me that she might have a touch of the crazies.
Just my $0.02