Hail Pleasar

I’ve man­aged to almost com­pletely cut my ex of sev­eral years from my life and am much bet­ter off for it. We still have a cou­ple mutual friends with whom I gen­er­ally only stay in touch on a super­fi­cial level. Recently one of these mutual friends requested to fol­low my pri­vate twit­ter account. While I …

If two girls make out at Roller­con, is it cheat­ing? I am a “het­eroflex­i­ble” derby girl in a solid, long­time rela­tion­ship with an awe­some non-derby dude. My derby friends say it would be totally cool if I were to swap some Mai Tai-laced spit with a skater — but only at Roller­con. How­ever, my boyfriend …

Ok, So I have this lit­tle crush and don’t know what to do about it. I don’t even know if the crushee has a crush on me, though at times I think he might. Besides, I don’t even know if I am even will­ing, able or ready to date. What, oh wholly one, should I do? …

I’ve been lis­ten­ing to Brit­ney Spear’s “Baby One More Time” repeat­edly in an attempt to learn how to play it on gui­tar. I used to think it was just an empty mean­ing­less pop song, but this morn­ing while eat­ing pan­cakes with my part­ner I real­ized that there is more to this song than meets the …